Option 2: I would say I don’t generally get angry at my friends or parents about anything. I don’t have that “mean” bone in my body to actually get so worked up that I yell at someone or break something. Instead, I take a more passive aggressive approach which can actually be more effective and less destructive in general. I haven’t written an actual passive aggressive “note”, however through text messages I’ve been able to convey a passive aggressive tone when I’m upset about something. Using sarcasm or by acting in a difficult/pouty way usual gets my point across and I end up resolving the conflict after the other party asks what I’m upset about.